Would you believe, the first traffic simulators were invented back in the 1960s, to test vehicle flow theories and minimise traffic.
Up until now, access to those simulators has been reserved for those in the old traffic management business. But now, thanks to a mysterious YouTuber known as Euverus, you can see a six-minute video that tests 30 different four-way intersection types. It's weirdly calming to watch. Maybe you could even view it while you're sitting in actual traffic (as a passenger, of course), to help you deal.